What Do You Write In a Bar/Bat Mitzvah Card?

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What To Write On Bar Bat Mitzvah Card

You’re attending a Bar Mitzvah ceremony.

You found the young man or woman a nice Bar Mitzvah gift (or Bat Mitzvah) for their special day… Now the only question remains:

“What do you write in a Bar/Bat Mitzvah card?”

After all, you want to let them know how much they mean to you (and who this gift is from).

There are endless Bar/Bat Mitzvah card messages you can go with…

Want to write a warm & emotional blessing? How about a passage from the Talmud? Or how about a blessing from Yoda?

Lucky for you, you’re about to see some examples like these (and more)…

Feel free to copy the blessing and use it (or share it) as you please on the Bar/Bat Mitzvah card.

The Family Blessing

Jewish Family Card

Congratulations on your coming of age!

May the Torah bless you and guide you throughout your whole life. I hope you know how blessed you are being surrounded by a family that loves you so much.

I wish you a lifetime filled with joy, success, and achievement in everything you do.

Continue being bright and hard-working, I’m so proud of you, and can’t wait to see what the future holds for you.

Mazel Tov!

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The Family Friend Blessing

Family Friend Blessing

You must be very excited!

Today you begin a new chapter of your young life.

Blessings to you on this special occasion,

and may the Torah and the love of your family be your guide in Life.

Mazel Tov!

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Jewish Wisdom Blessing (Talmud)

Jewish Wisdom Card

“May you live to see your world fulfilled. May you be our link to future worlds, and may your hope encompass all the generations to

May you be our link to future worlds, and may your hope encompass all the generations to be. May your heart conceive with understanding, may your mouth speak wisdom and your tongue be stirred with sounds of joy.

May your heart conceive with understanding, may your mouth speak wisdom and your tongue be stirred with sounds of joy.

May your gaze be straight and sure,

your eyes be lit with Torah’s lamp, your face aglow with heaven’s radiance,

your lips expressing words of knowledge, and your inner self alive with righteousness.And may you always rush in eagerness to hear the words of One more ancient than all time.”

And may you always rush in eagerness to hear the words of One more ancient than all time.”

Mazel Tov!

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The Funny Blessing (for Kicks & Giggles)

Funny Blessing

Congratulations on your Bar Mitzvah!

I still remember when you were just a young 12-year-old like it was yesterday.

Even though you’re officially a man now – stay the hell away from the alcohol! You’re not that kind of “man” yet.

Speaking of which: now that you’re officially all grown up, can I have your toys?

Just kidding…

Mazel tov! I wish you all the love, happiness and success in the world…

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Jewish Yoda’s Blessing

Jewish Yoda

Truly wonderful the mind of a child is.

Still wonderful you are, and more wonderful you shall become.

As you grow up, you will know the good from the bad when you are calm, at peace. Passive. A Jedi uses the Force for knowledge and defense, never for attack.

But PATIENCE YOU MUST HAVE, my young padawan…

Difficult to see. Always In motion is the future… But yours is a bright one.

May the force be with you!

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The Poem Blessing

Poem Blessing

A handmade blessing, written especially for you.

Praying you will find happiness & success in everything you do.

You’re now celebrating your coming of age,

With the Torah alongside you as you go on stage.

We love you so much & wish you all the best,

So excited to celebrate with you as your guest.

Mazel Tov!

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Conclusion 

There are many ways to write a Bar/Bat Mitzvah blessing, and a ton of Bar Mitzvah card messages to choose from.

You don’t necessarily have to go the “normal” (boring) way. You can spice it up a bit, add a bit of good old Jewish wisdom or even write a short poem.

Bottom line – anything can work. Be smart, be creative and be caring…

Most importantly: have a great time (and tell the young man/woman I said Mazel Tov).

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